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The book that I have mentioned before is finally coming to fruition. I know I'm a lazy fuck that starts projects that sometimes never see the light of day - this book is a different story. The biggest reason for me having not done much with the book is that I had interviewed people and conducted research for over 6 years now and it's hard to figure out what to do with all that information.
This is not unlike Kinsey (and our methods are pretty similar), although I'm not as smart and my research isn't meant to be without bias. The purpose of my book is to help women feel more comfortable with their sexuality without judgment, while simultaneously urging men to stop passing said judgment. I know, it's a lofty goal - but it's one worth exploring.
Anyway, I've written a detailed outline for myself and it's gotten some great response from the people I've shown it to so far. So, I went and wrote a sample chapter. I'm offering that chapter to you today.
DISCLAIMER : This chapter is not necessarily the writing style of the rest of the book. This is intended to be mostly conversational. This is also an out-of-context chapter, as it's the only one in the book that's specifically targeted towards male readers. Regardless of your gender, you'll get a rough idea of the tone and philosophy behind the book, and that's why I'm releasing it into the wild.
Below, you'll find a link to a .zip file that contains the chapter in both a PDF and an audio (MP3) version of the chapter. I wanted to make sure it would be consumed in a book-like way, and not a blog entry, so consume either/both at your leisure.
All commentary is welcome, and if you'd like to stay anonymous (or at least only reveal your identity to me, and not the masses), you can email : book@revmitcz.com or sending me a message here on GodsGirls.com :)
Download the sample chapter PDF and MP3 as a .zip file by clicking here.
Thank you, drive-thru.
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Libi
Bahah, I loved that. Very funny, but also very true. I never tell guys how many I've been with before them when they ask. (Quite frankly because I can't come up with an exact number, but also because if I say "Oh, I dunno, somewhere in the 30's or 40's?" they're bound to be either intimidated, or disgusted.) I mean, does it really matter? As long as I love sex everything's golden right?
Thank you for writing this :] And I hope it knocks some sense into those guys that say "Eww, slut." when I say I've taken it in the butt before or something along those lines...damn prudes.
But yea, keep up the good work and I want to read it when it's finished!
xo
Maga
Nice.
I'm curious if you're going to touch marriage? I remember a discussion we had about it a long time ago and you basically shunning the practice and ideologies behind it.
I'm sure everyone is aware that there is a double-standard that's existed throughout history when it comes to the chastity of women, however, I'm not above calling a man a whore for sleeping with over 30 people. I can enjoy casual sex, too, but the mere idea of being able to just fuck without any true connection beyond the genitals is beyond me. Sure, in theory one could have "connected" deeply with that many people but in reality, it's unlikely. I fucking love fucking, but I love the psychological merging and complete vulnerability that occurs even more so. And that's unlikely to be thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated if you're sloppy and indiscriminate about who you sleep with.
revmitcz
Nice comment, I'll answer in two parts..
1. Marriage will probably not be discussed very much at all in this book. I considered discussing the history of marriage as it relates to keeping women shackled - but that requires far more research than I'm ready to do right now. Also, in order to get this book off the ground, I've had to keep myself from being too "all-encompassing" about the material. Ideally, if this goes well, I'll be doing a broader book on relationships in general, based on the research and interviews I've done (and continue to do)
2. Personally, I think a lot of people discount a vast array of the levels of connection when downplaying casual sex. There's something to be said for deep, passionate, loving sex with a partner you trust with your life - sure. But, that's not to say that anything outside of that context is somehow shallow and meaningless. Again, I hope to break into that subject in quite some detail in this book.
Adrian-Louise
loved reading this. looking forward to the book. =]
Lux
i read it, then read it it to the audio.
i love it, very humorous but not so much that it takes away from what you are trying to explain.
i think it'll be really great!
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You are a wise man, Mitcz. I find it very insightful, and entertaining. This will make a great read!