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This is bothering me... posted : 05/22/09 at 01:33am pst

When I know it shouldn't.

A guy who I used to be friends with a few years back sends me this random message on myspace:

 

Subject:

Michael...

Body:
how the fuck many myspaces do you have? god damn you're gay

Which caught me off gaurd, so I go and respond:

I am gay because I don't have access to my other one?
Nice logic.

And he never said anything.
But it really bothered me for some reason, so I sent him a message again.

Mikey: Was it really necessary to message me about how many myspace profiles I have?
I know you have had a few yourself.
It was pretty damn rude, I must say.


Other guy: Obviously I felt I was.

Me: Did you get a feeling of accomplishment from it?

That was literally a minute after he sent me the message, I was online at the time so:

Other Guy: it took you one minute to reply to that? wow get a life dude
and trust me, my goal was not accomplishment

Me: What was your goal then?
You say that you are mature, sincere and kind...
I didn't get anything in that message that you sent.
Yeah, it took me one minute. I am sitting on my ass, on my computer. I got your message and replied.

Other Guy: My goal was that you'd do some fucking self analysis. When we were friends I put a lot of energy into trying to get you to understand and I'd hoped if I looked at your page I'd go "wow, michael isn't a 21 year old little boy anymore", but hey you're happy with that so you probably have nothing to worry about then.

 

Then he goes and blocks me.

This really shouldn't be bothering me. It's been a week...
But fuck, this hasn't left me.

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Desra
05/22/09 02:56am pst

fuck that dude

people like that are super annoying eh.....not worth your time or energy.

but i completely can relate to dumb myspace shit like that where its like....IM SO PISSED OFF i have to write back even though i shouldnt waste time

lol

xoxo

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:49pm pst

MySpace has caused people to not talk to eachother face to face. If this guy had a problem, he could have called me, or even showed up at my house to say shit to me...

This whole situation is stupid...
Thanks for the lovin'
:]

Krystyn
05/22/09 06:15am pst

Like I always say... "You're not the boss of me."

Who cares who this dude is or what his opinion of you is.

Don't let people get under your skin. The only ones who matter or the people you love and care for.

 

ps~ Hi. I'm Krystyn.

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:50pm pst

Hi Krystyn.
:D

I am getting better about not letting this bother me. I think since he took the time to message me over soemthing stupid bothered me the most...
He coulda said it to my face or something.

But whatever. I will get over it.
:]
Nice to meet ya!

Fluidspin530
05/22/09 07:15am pst

i understand that can be troublesome feeling........

*however*

fuck that !!!!!

dont u dare give that ass hole a second thought,hes not worried about u-hes got problems with himself if he needs to send u a random msge just to be an ass.

he said it perfectly himself"when  we were frinds" past tense and by the response he prolly wasnt that great of a friend anyway-in any case hes a real db now

dont let people like him make u worry ur pretty little head :)

<3

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:52pm pst

You summed that up perfectly!
:D

Viola
05/22/09 07:41am pst

What a tool!

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:53pm pst

I agree!

Roz
05/22/09 08:45am pst

Myspace sux big time....

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:53pm pst

It doez...
But I admit, I am addicted to it...
:/

Lorraine
05/22/09 09:56am pst

 Some people are stupid, and you shouldn't let anyone like that bother you.
I think its great your 21, <3

Lily
05/22/09 11:03am pst

Thats way lame.  Hes just jealous because you get to talk to hot babes on the internet all day...haha

 

But really, I can get why it would bother you because I am the same way and let little tihngs bother me but think of it this way, he isn't caring nor thinking about it and neither should you.  Hes a douche and not worth it.  Now I just have to take my own advice bc this is waay easier said than done.

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:54pm pst

He is just jealous. I am loved by a ton of hot babes on the internet... And a talk to them all day... Gawwhd... I win. He loses.

:D

I am getting over the whole situation, its just stupid that he went and took the time to try to insult me over the internet, when he could have just done it in person...

Tayte
05/22/09 11:40am pst

myspace has been the center of too many different "dramatic' situations in my life. it's so ruthless. in the end, i've just chocked it all up to a big FUCK YOU to myspace, and to all the idiots stirring the pot over social networking sites. its not worth it. you are better than that mikey, you have a kind heart and you can just forget about someone that talks to you like that. yuck.

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 01:11pm pst

I would like to say FUCK YOU myspace, but I admit, I am addicted to the site. Well, more like I rely on it to keep in contact with certain people.

It is rediculous how rude and fake people are on there though. I wish this guy would have said that crap to me to my face, and not on myspace, it was really childish. It's like breaking up with someone through a text message... Stupid! Cowardly.
I am getting over the whole thing, but it bugs me that he had to do it over myspace.

But whatever.

:D

<3 I hope you are doing fantastic!

Finch
05/22/09 11:42am pst

How extremely childish - the fact that anyone still uses "gay" as an insult tells volumes about their maturity and mental capabilities (meaning both would be almost non existent). 

Don't let it get you down, you're obviously in a way better place than he is. 

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:57pm pst

Exactly, I thought he was very immature saying that I was gay. And then he goes to say on his myspace that he is the kindest most sincere people you would ever meet... Hmmm... Yeahhh...

I am getting over it, I just think it was totally uncalled for.
:]

Leyla
05/22/09 02:32pm pst

ugh people suck big time.

I know how you feel, Ive been letting idiots get to me lately as well....

BlueEyedBoy
05/26/09 12:55pm pst

Punch the idiots in the face!
:D

Imogen
06/15/09 08:09pm pst

please tell me he meant to say "12 year old boy"

 

because 21 year old boy doesn't make any sense. haha

 

that guy sounds retarded. I hate "old friends" for reasons like that, obviously with people like that you stopped talking for a reason, and you just found it out.

 

pat yourself on the back for not keeping in touch with this dbag over the years.

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