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damn hippies posted : 10/13/08 at 04:57pm pst
ok so i hate hippies. well maybe not all of them. i went to this guy i am seeings show last night and this slut that he works with hippi slut. was there. i know they have hooked up before. but she was there and she is the type that is happy all the time but fake. condisending. she called me sweetie and i almost popped her. i am starting to question this new guy of mine too. he is really sweet but i cant get over all his exes as friends shit and when we got in a fight he messaged her.  i just dont know if i can trust anyone anymore.
ok question.  so ive been seeing this guy and for the first bit things were soooo awesome, then we got into some fights one really big one and now it feels weird. like is it possible to go back to things being great? i feel like he is being distant. i have a hard time trusting and i am scared i will ruin things if i dont just trust him. on the other hand i am scared to trust him b/c i dont wanna get hurt. he is a big flirt and i like a guy that only flirts with me. he used to send me sweet texts and those have stopped too. so do i stick it out? i dont know if he even wants me anymore. but i always asume the worst. also he could just be taking a breather from our fight? advice please.

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Luna
10/13/08 06:54pm pst

The more you will question his friendship with his ex's or the more you get mad at his flirting, the more he will provoke you with it..and then maybe will end up doing the worst...just try to accept the fact that he has a past and that he likes flirting(which isn't a crime), i know it's easier said than done, i have trust issues too and tend to be quite jealous. I've learnt that its definitely not very attractive and it always ends up by sabotaging relationships...when you feel the anger coming up instead of directing it towards him excuse yourself and go punch a wall or something :)
and you definetely shouldn't give a shit about his hippy ex.....hippies are such hypocrites anyways :p

xxxx

irishfirefghter
10/13/08 06:54pm pst

give it a lil more time, but keep your guard up just a lil bit to be safe and the ex's as friends thing is a lil wierd but some people are just like that, yes I know that sounds a bit confusing and backwards but you know what i mean and if you really like him then give him a shot and if he fucks up then he's gone and you know not to go for a guy like him.  And the distance from him after the fight is common for some guys, I got like that with my gf after our first bug fight but then i realized that it's either fight and get it done and go on with her or keep sulking and drive myself and her nuts and ruin it. So i dealt with it and we talked and it was cool from there, so just stay on your toes kiddo, hope that helped.

HannahRose
10/13/08 07:44pm pst

If the fights make you feel that bad early on there's no point in trying to make it work unless for some reason you think it's something REALLY special. And it sounds like you don't.
You can find better.
No question.

Joey
10/16/08 04:21pm pst

well i think it isnt going to work out. but whats new. he cant stop acting all weird after the fight so i told him i am an all or nothing kinda girl. i dont wanna be a convinence thing, oh geez i dont know, so ya its pretty much over. lol

SonnyDisco
10/23/08 12:34am pst

Bail him.

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