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do any of u have like the raddest mom ever n that will do whatever she can for you? meeee too! my ma is great and i love her so... but she is going thru metopause and it seems like almost everytime she sees me im getting bitched at for the smallest things that she musters up to nag bout. all i want is to hang out w/ her and have a good time w/ my mamma.. like what i vision me n my lil one being when were older, well sometimes its just so bad that i get soooo down n wanna just fuckin cry. for instance she came to my house today to bring me a awsome new rug. super stoked! annnnnd appriciative, well it seemed right as she walked in the damn door she was bichin bout nonsence, me- changing the subject to 'happier things', but just kept on busting me down. the shit is so pointless ya know! cuz now my day sucks n im venting on here.. allll i want is to have a great time everytime we talk but that cant seem to b the case.
i dont hold it against her to much tho, 1 cuz metopause,2 she has had a ruff past, and has issues being loving... i dont remeber the last time we hugged and she said i love u. but im ok with that cuz i know her, n that is just the way she is.. but its hard cuz im a super loving person and want to hug her more than anything! but damnit it has to b uncomfortable... and also i have n older sister that never gets the bitching, or my ma's hubby. sooo i think really that im the only person she has to yell at. and she def needs to get some bitching done atleast 3 times a week. annnnnd its all at me. fuck! well im gonna have to just settle on knowing that she needs SOMEONE to nag at from time to time... and that is me.
THANX FOR LISTENIN. i need it, xoxo
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Dayna
haha yea my ma just got outta the completely insane part n now shes in stage 2.. the nagging lol.. but stage 1, fuuuck she threatend to disown me for being a smoker.. so im now in the closet.
Jenna
my mom just flips out about really tiny stuff like leaving a light on. i accidentally left a light on in the garage for like 5 minutes and she screamed at me about the electricity bill. UHHH
Dayna
ummm yea same thing here, but she yells at me for leaving MY porch light on.. and those are my bills! wtf. haha
Jenna
it drives me crazy!!
Martini07
I love my mom, she's great!!
Dayna
awww, mine is aswell thats why this gets me sad
Martini07
*hugs*
wychlea
You're welcome! That's why we got ears! : )
Hugs!
Dayna
awwwsome n thanx! xox
TommyCinLA
I have the most amazing Mom, but sometimes you have to say "HOLD IT WAIT! My day is too short to be bitched at and our time together is limited so you gotta stop Ma"... sometimes they don't know they're doing it and you have to point it out... especially when the menopause chemicals kick off inside... my poor Mom sometimes we have to point it out to her.
Dayna
yea she is soo amazing and i just only want positive times yah know?!! it makes me sad.. shes really funny tho w/ her hot flashes, she gets 1 almost everytime were on the phone.. its funny shes like ok havin a hot flash gotta go.
thanx tommy
TommyCinLA
anytime sweetie...
have as much fun as you can but don't let her make you the target!
Alohra
I do! I have an awesome mom!
That sucks about the crabbiness and the menopause. My mom hasn't quite started going through that yet, but I'm sure that I'll be the only one she gets pissy at. My brother can do no wrong.
<3
Dayna
hahahaa, yea i know huh! thats how my sis is..perfect. well yea metopause def changes them, but not all the time..it comes n goes! but when it comes.. it COMES! lol, its ight tho they'l get over it in like 10 years! aaahhhhhh!
so good luck to u when yer ma's time comes. xo, lol
mitchell
Yeah, I love my mom! She's the best! She's going through menopause and sometimes she can be like that, too. But really only from time to time. It's not that bad. :)
Steam
Ahh i don't see my mother anymore, well because she's a bitch and it seems like she's constantly going through her menopause AND menstruating. So i can't relate to all this at all ! But i hope all this nagging will stop soon and that you'll get your loving Ma again soon. *hug*
Dayna
i know, she goes thru epasodes. im sorry bout u n yer mamma, hopefully she will get better soon n get over the damn metopause
Steam
I hope it will be better soon sweetie.
Ahah my mother doesn't even have hers, it's just the way she is !! :D
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my mom is going through menopause and sometimes shes fucking insane.