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Please excuse the randomness of all of this, Im unsure as to how it will go....
I am the girl with flaky friends. The girl with the boyfriend who cant stand the flaky friends.
Its a constant game of ping pong. They arent bad people just bad friends... THey break plans,
leave me waiting alot, are self centerd and not very dependable.. On the flipside I can call them
with any emergency any time of night. theyre great to vent to and we always laugh when we do hang out.
Ive told these three girls all how i feel and they admit to being lame. I accept this about them. Is that bad?
I know they will break plans at the last minute and i expect it...HE likes them as people but cant stand that i
get let down often. There are constant questions when they are over . Why is he always in his office? Does he not like us?
THen comes the damge control.... So.. drop the friends? continue to play moderator?
idaes?
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maraudingwombat
Tell them the truth...tell them he cares about you and hates seeing you hurt! They will accept it. Also agree with Annaliese' statement
zachfriendly
Sucky situation kiddo! Well, you boyfriend does not have to like your friends. My girl that I was with in florida had a bunch of stinky hippy, pseudo intelligent, tweekers that she was friends with, and needless to say, I din't like them very much, but I could always muster the courage to sit and chat with them. He can be a kind person and just be nice to your friends... It does not seem like they are hurting anything by being flaky. You're alright with it, why isn't he?
I hope it all smooths over alright!
Steff
nah its not like that. I understand his point completely.
They do suck and i get let down alot...
badbilly
Keep both, tell them that they don't have to like each other you are with each in your way, not theirs. And make more friends that balance out the good and bad those three girls.
dougiefresh
screw being in a relationship and screw friends thats why we have dogs....
Minerva
... are you kidding me? its like high school when you find out the person you have had a crush on for years likes you back..... can I keep you?
Steff
please please please do
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tell them that he's your boyfriend and they're not dating him so it shouldn't matter if he likes them or not. haha.