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good news bad news posted : 09/17/09 at 01:33pm pst listening to:watching threes company

hello my loves

how are all of you doing today?

so in the entry i have some good news and some bad

i guess ill give the good news first

i have a set going up today

its my last pro set by jm darling

i hope you all enjoy it

 

on to the bad news

for any of you who have talked to me you know that i was taking care of my friends mom who was dying of cancer

well she finally passed away

i hate that she is gone but i am glad that she is no longer suffering

watching her pass away was one of the most intense yet serene things i have ever seen

 

she was like a mother to me and i will miss her very much

 

well thats about all

 

like i said hope you all enjoy my last pro set

and there will be diys on the way as well

 

hope all is well with all of you

 

xoxox

matilda

 

 

 

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Donkey
09/17/09 02:07pm pst

:(

Matilda
09/17/09 06:06pm pst

:)

TonyStark
09/17/09 02:23pm pst

 I sympathize with your loss, I have watched more than one family member and just recently a good friend of mines mother, succumb to various cancers. It is a horrible way to go and it is indeed best to be thankful they no longer have to suffer through it.

 

Matilda
09/17/09 06:03pm pst

yeah she was battling with it for 7 years

i dont know how she stayed so strong

im glad shes finally free

TonyStark
09/17/09 08:17pm pst

It's often amazing to see the strength humans can have in the face of adversity.

Cat
09/17/09 02:41pm pst

meow hun.. <3

Angela
09/17/09 03:42pm pst

that really sucks, i'm sorry sweetie <3

but i am excited for your set :-)

Matilda
09/17/09 06:07pm pst

thank you :)

hope you like it

BrokenPath
09/17/09 03:51pm pst

 Sorry Bro :/

Matilda
09/17/09 06:07pm pst

thanks man

Skylar
09/17/09 04:31pm pst

Your set is amazing :)

I'm sorry to hear about your friends mom.

Grace
09/17/09 05:20pm pst

:[

<3

richpdx
09/17/09 08:08pm pst

That's so sad about your friend's mom. I'm sure you did what you could to make her time better.

On the happier note, your set is beautiful. You are very pretty, and sweet :)

Matilda
09/17/09 10:41pm pst

i know that i did

i had been taking care of her and her family for the past 4 years

 

thank you darling

Tova
09/17/09 09:51pm pst

i really am sorry for your loss and it'll be hard but just know there is no more suffering and if anything i hope you gain the strength she had i really admire women with such strength and we all love you here and we'll all be here for you if you needs us <3

Matilda
09/17/09 10:42pm pst

thank you baby

i love all of you guys!!!

<3

Nik
09/17/09 11:20pm pst

So sorry to hear about your loss.

Actually earlier today, one of my best friends lost his father to cancer and he is only 21. 

But that's just how you have to look at it as they aren't suffering and accept it.  Even though I don't think anyone deals with death easily, especially when it come with a sickness.

 

Matilda
09/18/09 12:13am pst

yeah she has 5 kids

the oldest is 25 then 22,20,16 and 15

thats how i look at it especially taking care of her watching her suffer so much

its just no matter what i hate the fact that shes gone

 

im sorry about your friends dad

fucking cancer man

 

Sumo813
09/18/09 05:26am pst

Sorry to hear about both your friend's, as well as your loss. That's so sad. :( I hope that coping with the loss is not terribly difficult. *hugs* to you both.

Matilda
09/18/09 07:14pm pst

we're doing alright

just us knowing shes not suffering anymore puts us at some ease

 

Sumo813
09/19/09 12:52am pst

Yeah... i have a friend whos dad passed away a couple months back... was tough for him because his dad was in a decent amount of pain. Another friend's mom-in-law (live-in) is basically on the verge of passing. Shes got advanced stages of rectal cancer (or colon cancer, i cant recall). And one of my best friends just got news that his grandmother passed away this morning. : All I can do is offer my friendship in the event it is needed.

Turandot
09/18/09 11:55am pst

Well, I definitely enjoyed your last set! And, I'm very sorry for you and your friend's loss, but glad that you can all have peace now knowing that she is no longer suffering. :]

Matilda
09/18/09 07:15pm pst

yup thats whats getting us through it

knowing shes finally free of all the pain

 

Pippa
09/21/09 07:02am pst

 i'm sorry to hear about your loss dear. :(

Matilda
09/21/09 01:19pm pst

:)

Missa
09/25/09 12:30am pst

*hugs*

Bree
09/29/09 03:23pm pst

i remember u told me this...

im sorry.
but like u said, its good that shes no longer suffering
*hug*

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