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Last night Brandon and I started to play around with audio. I get a lot of e-mails from women asking me questions and I usually just respond, sometimes make them into a NL, but last night we recorded one.

This is from a woman asking me about jealousy, interdependent circles (relationship with more then one woman).

Check it out :).

You can listen to it here: http://www.yintegrity.com/yindocs/yintegrity_jealousy.mp3

We actually had a ton of fun, so I think we're going to start doing a lot more audio. I edited out most of the jokes/laughing we did... but there's some silly stuff I left in because Brandon and I are actually pretty big goofs ;).

The place I work at gets a high traffic of celebrities.

Last time I was there I met one of the main guys from Cool Runnings. He was fucking AWESOME, so nice and really genuine.

Today I met Mena Suvari.



She was really awesome, down to earth. She complimented me on my tattoos and asked questions and I made her an awesome elixir. She cussed a lot, haha. Her hair was SUPER short, like she grew it out from being buzzed, but she was still fucking hot, holy shit.

I got a new job today and started training. I work at a raw food restaurant and I work at the elixir bar. Meaning people get to come in and be like, "I am feeling kind of sick and I need an energy/immune system boost." and I get to make them a really cool tonic/elixir.

They hired me because I  have a lot of experience and know a lot about raw supplements/nuts/leaves/powders and minerals/vitamins so they basically don't really have to train me.

I  made a reallllly good elixir for a guy who wanted immune system support/longevity. I used coconut water as the base, and added in raw cacao powder (really high in magnesium, good for the heart, prevents tooth decay, release natural feel good chemicals like anandamine and phenylethemines), goji berries (the most antioxidant rich berry known to man, supports long life), Crystal Manna (a blue green algae that works really synergistically with cacao), and raw agave nectar for sweetness.

I charged it with heart energy and served with love. Needless to say he really thanked me for the drink and told me it made him feel GREAT.

Also, I made a couple new girlfriends who I REALLLLLY like and we are having a sleepover tomorrow! I have a HUGE crush on one of the girls, and I don't even have to make this post members only, because I know that she knows it, haha. :oops:

In other news, my debut set went up and I am soooo excited that I finally have a set up.

I've been going through a lot of changes and transformations that I don't have enough inspiration to tell you about. But I will soon enough.

Anyway, that's about it for now. I just wanted to update everyone.

Love always,
Daisy

Alright, so I'm making myself pretty vulnerable here, so go easy on me. Here was a blog post written by Brandon posted on our Yintegrity Blog (www.yintegrity.com/blog).



Once a starry night, a profound experience occurred for Amy Jo — She realized she HATED beautiful women.

It wasn’t so much a “realization”, we had already known of this feeling, but we were able to figure out why and to transcend this hate of beautiful women. The fact that we knew was this — unattractive girls hate and are jealous of attractive girls.

Deep down inside, this is the way things are. No matter how much a woman PROCLAIMS to be “above” that, most women are slaves to this.

One night we went out to a club we usually go to. I wanted to take A.J. out because she was getting “oneitis” for a girl she was getting to know and I wanted to refresh her a bit.

On the way there, I had an AMAZING meditation, more profound than usual, so I was a bit… out of it. Usually, when I hit new levels in my chakras, I get really “out of it” — I’m in a new mental place, old stuck energy is finally leaving, I’m seeing the world in a new light etc. etc.

To say the least, I wasn’t in the mood to “go to da’ club”.

While we were there, A.J.’s insecurities got the best of her and I had to take her and leave the place.

I sat her down in the car and wanted to get out what she was feeling. After a bit of a struggle, I found out she had much insecurity around all of the pretty women at the club and she HATED them. They were so empty inside.

A light bulb flashed in my head. c> :o)

Amy Jo was NEVER that pretty girl before. Instead, she was the SMART girl when she was younger. She had nothing else but her intelligence.

Pretty women, they are almost NEVER rewarded for anything else other than their looks. So, they become CONSUMED with them.

A.J. kept saying she was resentful of women, but the truth is, it’s most men she should take a look at. It’s men that CREATE this reality! If there were no men out there giving salaries to women, giving HUGE amounts of validation to women, running the world, do you think women would try to look THAT pretty?

No.

When a woman doesn’t have her looks, she has LIMITED options. If a woman is dumb AND ugly, GOOD LUCK. She will be considered the scum of society by most. If a woman is ugly and NOT a feminist, what does she have?

Ugly women MUST become feminist, it’s the natural way, or else they believe they have nothing . They become something to walk all over.

So, Amy Jo was lucky, and got intelligence in this lifetime. She became VERY intelligent as a youngster. She was the kind of girl that hoped she got BOOKS for Christmas. ;)

I told her that she only hates pretty women because they have something she never got validated for. They have the one thing that she WISHED she had always had. When she was younger, she was overweight and smart and was angry at women because she desperately craved that VALIDATION for being hot and stupid. So, she would go on using her intelligence to put them down.

But, she secretly wanted that POWER.

She wanted people to give her approval without having to do anything.

You see, pretty women are usually DUMB, because they never have to ACTIVITLY get approval. They put in the effort in the bathroom, look good and get it. They become blinded to any other possibilities of love and acceptance.

Where as guys have to actively get stuck in the social matrix, all women have to do is look good and they get sucked in like a vortex.

She admitted she had NO IDEA that this was even going on within her. She’s just like most women in that she was unconscious of the things that drive her.

But why worry about that shit?

She lives for the NOW. Most pretty women understand that they have a 15… 20 year MAX before their tits start to sag, they get bags under their eyes their ass starts drooping. She knows to live NOW, because she knows she will dread her future.

She lives for excitement, pleasure, fun, liveliness … NOW.

Now that Amy Jo has become a beautiful woman, it takes conscious effort for her to come to BALANCE both her feminine beauty and her masculine intelligence.

Thing is, there is NOTHING WRONG with being beautiful.

Beauty IS feminine and femininity is beautiful.

It’s just a matter of BALANCE.

Many women take their looks to the extreme and use it to their advantage. They mess up what they have, but that is the world that we are living in today. Pretty women have ADVANTAGES that other people don’t and sorry to say, most of them EXPLOIT it. The FEAR of what happens in 15 years when their beauty is no longer wanted, when it’s no longer “marketable” causes them to.

I told Amy Jo that she was probably a *very* beautiful girl in a past life, but she went through that whole “Pussy Power” phase in it. So this lifetime, she chose to teach herself beauty by being unattractive for the first part of her life so that she could avoid that social pressure and then bring upon beauty when she was READY and intelligent enough to handle it.

To be RESPONSIBLE with it. Beauty can be a curse or freedom.

“Beauty and brains” IS possible. But it takes a letting go of that oh so addicting VALIDATION.

Thanks for reading.

With honor,

Brandon

www.Yintegrity.com

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I'm so fucking high. and hungry! Here... let me make myself pretty vulnerable. I love it how when I make myself vulnerable... people who are insecure and scared will take that as the opportunity to attack and energy vamp me.  Most people lack serious integrity.

After Stephane posted The Relationship Matrix 2, Brandon and I realized a lot of things about my own inner Biker Bitch and just how much I wanted to be dominated, abused, treated like shit... you name it ;).

I was appalled at first. Seriously, I *hated* myself. Actually, I didn't hate myself, my inner feminist hated my inner biker bitch.

It was like a literal battle of personalities inside me. I felt fucking schizophrenic.

Brandon and I realized that my inner feminist judges my biker bitch for being "weak" and wanting to be treated badly and not listened to.

It was really important for me to accept all these things within myself and take a leap of faith, but it was hard accepting something apart of myself that literally made me want to vomit.

I will never feel peace in myself until I accept all these parts of myself - the part of me that wants to be treated with respect, the part of me that wants to be degraded and dominated, as well as the other parts in me.

My inner feminist was repressing my biker bitch, making it grow larger and larger, literally wanting to get into fights and be spanked. The more I repressed my biker bitch, the more I craved the release.

Once I could accept these parts of myself, then I could transcend them to the point where Brandon and I could have a peaceful relationship.

All these personalities must be balanced, accepted, and living in harmony with each other. I've accepted myself as this walking contradiction full of life and emotion and life force energy.

This stuff can be really scary, but with acceptance comes an amazing growth and appreciation for all that is.

Brandon even has much more respect for feminine energy, and has been helping me really got over my own issues with the feminine pysche.

I've come to terms with both, embracing all of my feminity.

I can see now that it's important to have all of these things balanced. The more women reject the darkness in them, the more the darkness grows and poisons.

My respect for Brandon has also gone way up. During all of this, when I was battling myself, he was able to help me with non-judgment. For him to have such compassion, tenacity, and non-judgment while in a moment of such deep and heavy personal growth.... it was like I knew I could never find another man like Brandon EVER in my entire life.

Repression brings about more pain. I had to have the motivation and strength to face myself inside, but now that I have, I feel light. Everything still remains and nothing's totally changed save my acceptance.

Acceptance of my darkness almost instantly turned it into light. I also have the ability to have compassion and non-judgment for the darkness in others.

I really thank Stephane for those posts and for Brandon who continually teaches me how to become my best self. Stephane's posts may seem dark, but they really aren't.

It's the unacceptance of darkness that keeps it in the dark. Acceptance sheds light.

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I wonder what it is that creates such fear in people to not listen to their hearts.

I'm looking for a girl who'll do whatever it takes to follow something her heart wants.

Intimacy is a really difficult thing for people. Because to be truly intimate you have to become vulnerable and open like the gooey center of a cookie.

What is it? Is it that people are afraid of me seeing the darkness in them? Are they afraid of not being perfect or good enough? Because the truth is, existence doesn't judge. Existence doesn't believe in inferior or superior. Everything is accepted in existence, just as it is. There is no such thing as condemnation.

You cannot love people who do not love themselves. How can you love someone who is self-condemnatory? She will not believe you. If she cannot love herself, how can you dare to?

If you remain closed off by walls and safeguards, only our personalities can meet, and our centers remain alone. Then only our masks our related, not us.

Osho says, "The problem of all lovers is that deep down they are afraid. They go on wondering whether this relationship will be strong enough to bear truth. But how can you know beforehand? If the relationship survives truth, it will be beautiful. If it dies, then, too, it is good because one false relationship has ended."

and one more good one:

"People are afraid of great music, people are afraid of great poetry, people are afraid of deep intimacy. People's love affairs are just hit-and-run affairs. They don't go deep into each other's being, the fear is there -- the other's pool of being will reflect you. In that pool, in that mirror of the other's being, if you are not found -- if the mirror remains empty, if it reflects nothing -- then what?"

I'm looking for a spiritual warrior. A girl who will become my and Brandon's apprentice and learn about meditation, chakras, deep self love, intimacy, honesty, loyalty, integrity.

These things are scary because they are true, and only for the strong. The fearful do not have what it takes. This is not out of judgment. Everything is appropriate. Even the fearful are just going through necessary experiences right now so they can become strong.

Even still, I wish I could meet a girl who could handle all this stuff.

Man, I met this girl through a good friend on myspace. She was beautiful, interesting, and she really really liked me. I told her to call me tonight and she didn't.

She sent me a message that reaked of fear.

It was like she wanted to hang out with me and wanted to be with me so much, but there was some kind of fear that was holding her back. I could tell in the e-mail, it was like she was trying to tell me that she was sorry she couldn't be stronger, and she wished she could.

Brandon and I need a woman who is a spiritual warrior. Someone who is able to push through fear for something that she loves. A woman who will listen to her heart. Where the fuck is she?

Girls are so disappointing sometimes.

Hey everyone,

Firstly, if you have a myspace, please add me : ) www.myspace.com/godsgirldaisy.

Secondly, I've been reading an amazing book by Osho called Intimacy. It's been helping me to trust myself as well as others, and it's been helping me to cultivate true love for myself. A guy was driving through L.A., a customer, who bought Brandon and I's eBook. He bought us lunch, and it was really fucking cool. I'll post more later, but for now:

Thirdly,

Pictures:

Brandon:


and my boobies: