you are a very strong woman i wish i was half as strong as you me and my ex are constantly on and off and on and for some reason i find it so hard to let go but we just tear into each other sometimes and completly destroy each other soulits a nasty rut to get into. its so nice to hear tho that you no you guys are meant to be with each other and no you will get back together later on in life tho

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I hope you'll feel better soon!

 I'm sure (as lame as it can sounds...) that it's for the best!

And like you said if it's the right person .. you'll come back together one day!

Anyway have a good day sweety :)

Well, darling...you are quite young.  Not to say you are immature by any means.  But being older, and dating my share of younger girls, I have come to realize that most girls tend to feel like they know what they want in life when they are in their late teens, but go through a pretty major change when the hit their early to mid 20's.  Not to say this is the same for everyone, but it seems pretty standard.  Guys, on the other hand, don't seem to really know what they want until they are in their late 20's/early 30's. But, I digress...

Anyway, what I am saying is that you both probably have a lot of growing to do, and life lessons to learn before you will truly be able to give yourselves to a relationship such as marriage.  So, go out and live life and have crazy experiences.  If it's meant to be, it will happen.  Regardless, I wish you all the best!  :)