Why can't cute, funny, charming guys stalk me??!!??

You just gave me permission.

Then what are you waiting for?

Get in your car. I'll be in your backseat.

Girl I get the same thing. I get scary guys staring at me on the bus and stuff, it's horrible. I'm so afraid I carry 2 knives, pepper spray, and a stun gun in my purse.

This is probably a stupid question and I don't mean to sound like a dick but does that mean that guys you don't find immediately attractive and that hit on you are creeps and guys you deem hot aren't? I mean I don't know the details...I'm sure some of these guys you speak of have just been blatantly creepy.  You also have to excuse really poor approaches ("game" if you will) to a certain extent lol.

Just curious of your opinion.

-Frankie

You totally have a valid point. Some of these guys are very attractive but it's their approach that is odd and obviously doesn't make me want to jump up and say yes to them. Maybe these guys need some lessons on how not to creep out a girl. That can help!

What's funny is that there are guys like myself who hardly ever approach anybody ever for fear of coming off as lame or even worse...creepy. I always end up dating through mutual friends or co-workers etc. I'm pretty extroverted but when it comes to going in for "the kill" I guess I'm not all that adept. At my age I've asked out plenty of women but it's never at like a club or bar or those types of situations it's always much more familiar like a mutual friend's birthday party. The other thing too is that I am attracted to gals with really strong personalities who are smart, open-minded, funny, creative etc. and you better come at a lady like that with something clever and not creepy. Sometimes I get a bit intimidated by a woman I find attractive. Anyhow I am just blabbering now. Have a good night doll.
- Frankie

hahaha i totally feel ya. my work has webcams, and some dude came in to ask me out. he was not even a client, and he said he'd been watching me on the webcam... totally NOT getting a date, buddy! ha and yeah, it's never the guys you want to stalk you... how do we fix that??? determination is hot when you're already attracted to the person. somebody outta send out a memo.

I'll right that damn memo stat!

Can I stalk you? Kekekekekeke.

LAWLS. But in all seriousness, I guess you need to be stalked by a lot of toads before you find prince charming.

I like the sound of that! And yes, please stalk me all you want.